| ... More commonly, 
                    however, the male simply takes the female regardless of or 
                    against her will, thereby making sex an act of violation and 
                    making violation the condition, usually if not always, for 
                    sex. Women seem to fare badly, and the words they characteristically 
                    speak (especially in sexual encounters) are ones of pain or 
                    supplication: "onegai" (I beg of you), "tasukete" 
                    (help me), "itai" (it hurts), "iya" (this 
                    is awful)... |